Common Isn't Normal: Why Accepting Pain is Holding You Back
- Laura Fishlock
- Apr 18
- 3 min read

Living in a world of desk-bound professionals, it's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that pain is just part of modern life. "Everyone has back pain," or "That's just what happens when you work at a computer all day." Sound familiar? Here's the truth: common doesn't equal normal, and accepting pain as your default state might be the biggest obstacle to your wellbeing.
Breaking the Normalisation Trap
Think about this: if everyone in your office building had a persistent cough, would you consider that normal? Probably not. You'd likely suspect an underlying issue - poor air quality, a virus, or environmental factors. Yet when it comes to musculoskeletal pain, we've collectively decided to accept it as an unavoidable part of professional life.
The Hidden Cost of Acceptance
When we accept pain as normal, we're not just tolerating discomfort - we're:
• Limiting our potential for physical activity
• Reducing our quality of life
• Potentially missing early warning signs of serious issues
• Creating patterns that become harder to break over time
• Impacting our mental wellbeing and stress levels
Understanding Your Body's Signals
Our bodies aren't designed to be in pain. Pain is a sophisticated warning system, evolved over millions of years to protect us and prompt action. When we experience pain, it's our body's way of saying, "Something needs attention here."
Critical Warning Signs That Aren't 'Normal':
Pain that persists beyond 6 weeks
Discomfort that affects your sleep
Pain that changes your daily habits
Symptoms that worsen over time
Pain that moves or spreads to other areas
The Professional Impact
Chronic pain affects more than just your physical wellbeing:
• Decreased decision-making ability
• Reduced cognitive performance
• Impaired leadership effectiveness
• Compromised strategic thinking
• Strained team dynamics
• Limited career progression
Moving Beyond Pain
Acceptance Breaking free from pain acceptance requires a holistic approach:
Physical Assessment
• Regular movement evaluations
• Postural analysis
• Strength and flexibility testing
• Workplace ergonomic reviews
Lifestyle Integration
• Stress management techniques
• Sleep optimisation
• Movement integration
• Nutritional support
Professional Support
• Evidence-based treatment
• Preventive care strategies
• Expert guidance
• Regular maintenance
The Investment Perspective
Think of addressing pain like maintaining a high-performance car. Regular servicing and early intervention with small issues prevent major breakdowns and expensive repairs. Your body deserves the same level of care and attention.
Action Steps for Change:
• Document your pain patterns
• Identify activities you've modified
• Assess impact on work performance
• Set clear health goals
• Learn to interpret body signals
• Understand pain triggers
• Recognise early warning signs
• Build body awareness
• Implement preventive strategies
• Develop healthy movement habits
• Create sustainable routines
• Maintain regular check-ins
Your New Normal Instead of accepting pain, focus on prevention:
• Regular movement assessments
• Proactive treatment approaches
• Workplace ergonomic reviews
• Stress management techniques
• Regular exercise and mobility work
Taking Action Today Ask yourself these crucial questions:
• What activities have I modified or given up?
• How is pain affecting my professional performance?
• What would I do differently without pain?
• Am I setting the right example for my team?
Next Steps Ready to stop accepting pain as your normal? Here's your action plan:
Book a comprehensive assessment
Get a clear understanding of your pain patterns
Develop a targeted treatment plan
Learn prevention strategies
Start reclaiming your full potential
Remember: Common isn't normal, and you don't have to accept pain as your default state. Our experienced team specializes in helping professionals transform their relationship with pain, trust their body's signals, and transcend limiting beliefs about what's "normal."
Ready to redefine your normal? Book your assessment today and take the first step toward pain-free living.
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